2020… What a year

It’s currently 11:14pm on New Years Eve (31/12/2020). This year is a tricky one to recap. It started with bushfires and ended in fear of a third wave of Covid here in Melbourne.

This year broke many, it definitely broke me somewhat. I am a different woman at the end of 2020 compared to the start. But I’m kind of grateful for that.

This year gave our little family the gift of time together, to do nothing but enjoy each other’s company and appreciate all that we have.

Yes it was also shit for a number of other reasons – lockdown/isolation etc but I don’t want that to be the reason I remember 2020.

I hope my kids remember it as when mum baked lots of delicious treats, we had pj days with arts and crafts and celebrating family dinners when we were allowed.

I will cherish those quiet birthdays without all of the fuss. Just us, a few cupcakes, pizza in the loungeroom and a movie that the kids chose.

2020 for me is the year I realised how wonderful my circle of friends are. And how important it is to keep in touch, we are all busy…. a phone call can go a long way. This year I have cried more times than I care to count, I’ve yelled, screamed, cursed. But I’ve also laughed, loved and appreciated more this year too.

I don’t have a plan or a resolution for 2021, I don’t want one. I don’t think anyone needs one. Just surviving 2020 is a blessing. It’s been a hell of a ride.

I’ll write a separate post on a few things I’ve been experienced this year but for now I’m reflecting on all the beautiful memories we created in 2020 despite the Pandemic.

I hope 2021 brings everyone peace, joy and appreciation for all that they have.

2020… What a year

A little update from us

How is it already September? where on earth has this year gone?

Today I received an email to confirm Alessia’s 4 year old Kindergarten enrolment for 2021 and I realised that my baby girl isn’t a baby anymore. In the blink of an eye I will add School uniforms to my washing pile and packing lunchboxes and I don’t think my heart is ready to watch my girls grow so quickly.

As I sit here and write this I am at work in the city, its quiet and being home with my little family is all I can think about.

We made the decision that I would return to work part time in order to have some extra disposable income and save for a huge trip that we have planned for a few years time. Whilst I don’t love being back at work, I enjoy my job, to me it’s easy money and I am fortunate to be able to work from home majority of my shifts, this allows me to have the work/life balance that I need.

I haven’t written a blog in probably about a year, I planned on writing a lot more but time just seemed so precious and the thought of spending my downtime writing just didn’t appeal to me as much as I hoped. I keep a journal that I write in every few months to one day reflect on these days of early motherhood. life can sometimes be a blur but I try and make the most of it as I know our girls will be grown before we know it and I will miss the chaos of their littleness and dependence.

I was so fortunate to be a full time stay at home mum for 15 months, an incredible time that I will forever be grateful for, some big sacrifices were made by both of us to allow it. Adam changing careers after 15 years as a chef. Whilst a huge adjustment and culture shock initially he is loving the change and lifestyle of being home for dinner every night, being able to watch the footy and weekends with family and friends.

I keep getting notified that my blog is receiving views and this has prompted me to write a little update on what we are up to, how the girls are growing etc.

Alessia is 2 Years & 9 Months, Sicily is 15 Months Old.

Both girls are just the sweetest little darlings and adore each other, don’t get me wrong, they know how to be cheeky and often drive my crazy but they have the sweetest nature and their bond is just incredible.

They have polar opposite personalities yet get along so well, they constantly look for each other and I am glad to say that mostly are happy to share, except their Daddy, Sicily would rather rip her sister’s hair out than share her daddy when she is having a cuddle. hehe

Our days are spent playing, eating, cooking, baking, cleaning and drowning in 4000 loads of washing.

Now that I am back at work and we are coming into warmer weather, I allocate one day a week for an outing just us girls, last week was Scienceworks, this week the Zoo. Over the winter months we toyed with playcentres however my girls seem to get sick every time we visit them and it really turned me off them where possible. I have a Small Ideas Subscription and some of the activities we have done have been incredible. highlight would have to be Interaxcity! check it out.

I share most of our day on Instagram stories. @shakieraangelucci , if you’re interested in following along.

I share not only photos of the girls and things we are up to but cleaning, cooking and organisation tips etc, I like to run a tight ship, Life with two can be chaotic, especially co ordinating nap time, bath time, making breakfast, lunches and working out what we can all have for dinner, my OCD makes me want to clean everything constantly and keep my house clean and tidy however my kids bring me back down to earth and spend their days messing it up and making it feel well lived in.

Caring for two little humans , keeping a strong relationship with my husband, running a household and working part time does take its toll from time to time and I often feel overwhelmed, but the days are long but  the years are short and I am grateful that for the most part our girls sleep well and I get a chance to rest and regroup before doing it all again.

Alessia is 2 going on 12 and just the sassiest little toddler ever. she is so incredibly intelligent and could talk underwater. she loves all types of activities and needs lots of mental stimulation to save her from being bored. Alessia has a great memory and can recite her favourite book almost word for word! We must read it every night before bed. She is getting so tall, approx. 16kg, wearing Size 3/4 clothes and size 9 shoes. She is the best big sister, constantly trying to teach her little sister new things and has quite the appetite. Doesn’t want to toilet train so we are aiming to get it happening in the coming months with the warmer weather. BATMAN is life in our house and that is this years birthday party theme, she asks to see the Pinterest page everynight and we have a look at what else we can make / add to her special day. She gives the best cuddles and is such an affectionate and caring child.

 

Sicily is 15 Months and boy oh boy am I learning to parent this one differently. Her little personality is starting to shine through as is her deep love of Pasta and BATMAN! if you ask Sicily what her name is, her response is “Matman!” She flat out refuses to walk without assistance despite confidently taking steps, she prefers to use either a toy frame and if she can’t find one has been known to push my dining chairs around the house. Sicily is starting to talk, has just 5 teeth (my boobs are grateful given she refuses to stop breastfeeding), favourite foods are cheese, broccoli, pasta, daddy’s chocolate chex cereal and loves a sneaky chip. She is stubborn and knows exactly what she wants, doesn’t want. gives the biggest dirty looks and best kisses and cuddles. sleeps up my bum as a co sleeper but I have to admit I low key love it and will be sad when she doesn’t want to  share our bed. showing that she is going to be as tall as her sister she is wearing size 1/2 clothes, size 4 shoes and weights around 11kg. I cannot wait for Sicily to be walking and talking, I don’t mean to wish the time away but I can’t wait to see her develop into a little girl and watch her play and grow with Alessia.

Life certainly is more dirty nappies and witching hour than romance and date nights lately but I wouldn’t change it for the world. We make as much time for each other as husband and wife and keep our communication open. I have to admit I have broken down on a few occasions lately but I think its due to the fact that there aren’t enough hours in the day to balance it all sometimes and #hormones. I am grateful to have such a calm and loving husband who can see past my crazy lol.

blink and it will be Christmas, then a new year. We are planning Alessia’s third birthday and trying to talk Santa up to be the best dude ever so that maybe we can get a nice Santa photo this year…. fingers crossed.

who would have thought that it would take adding work into my hectic life that would allow me time to sit and reflect and write this post, but here we are and now that I am writing it feels good. you may just hear more from me soon.

if there is anything you would like to know / read about etc please feel free to comment on this post or send me a message.

I have recently finished reading The Barefoot Investor and we are now living the BFI lifestyle, I am keen to share how this goes soon.

Thanks for following along x

A little update from us

New Baby, New Home, New Routines

Sicily is 4 Months Old!!! Actually she has been 4 Months Old for a week already 🤦🏻‍♀️

Where did that time go? I swear it was Easter last weekend!

Sicily Valentina has completed our little family. I plan on writing a solo post for her soon so I’ll tell you more about her soon. But life with 2 is Amazing. It’s hectic, crazy but ohh so fun and our girls will grow up together and just love each other already.

This year has been hectic for our little family. It’s been amazing and every bit worth it but we haven’t stopped.

12 months ago we learned that we were expecting Sicily and we would outgrow our first home. It was never meant to be our forever house and so we made the decision in Jan/Feb to go to Auction in March.

Our first home.

Our listing

SOLD! Goodbye our first home

We started the process of decluttering and preparing the house for sale while I had the energy of my second trimester of pregnancy.

We were extremely happy with the result and because we hadn’t yet bought a house we had decided to move in with Adams parents in between houses. (We were there 3.5 Months)

This truly was the best decision ever with a new baby and a 17 month old that wants lots of attention. Adam works afternoons/evenings so I solo parent 5 nights a week. Having those extra hands at bedtime were the biggest blessing and I will be forever grateful.

About a month after selling we found our dream home. We had a massive list of must haves and this one ticked every box! Big, security, more than one toilet (we now have 4!!) , low maintenance and a big kitchen. This house will hold all of our memories as a family of 4. We are so proud of our home and can’t wait to watch our girls grow up here.

Hello New House!!

We have lived here for a month and it already feels like home.

Last week we properly started to set up Alessia’s bedroom and the girls toy room. They’re both a working progress but certainly an improvement and we have now worked out what we are wanting to do in both rooms so it’s going to be full steam ahead with setting both up in the coming week/s.

Last week after realising how disruptive Alessia was becoming to us as a Co sleeper, I decided it was time to cut the cord and transition her into her big girl (queen size) bed. We had purchased the side bedrails before we moved in as it was always the plan to move her into her own room.

We have to admit though, we both secretly loved Co sleeping. We have never had disruption at night with Alessia. She slept through the night from day 1 of Co sleeping. And even before that she used to sleep well, she would just end up in our bed after she woke at around 3-4am as she was still breastfeeding and it was easier to just feed her whilst I slept. But lately she has started rolling around in her sleep and it’s waking us both up several times during the night. So the time had come!

We upgraded to a king bed for this new house as our master bedroom is too big for a queen. We have Sicily’s cot in our room and we still have room. We gave Alessia our Queen bed, it’s the bed and mattress that she has always Co slept on and as such it made the transition a smooth one.

I did a double whammy and moved Sicily from bassinet to cot on the same day I moved Alessia into her room. They’re both little legends as no complaints from either one of them! They both went down in their respective beds without a hitch.

Occasionally Alessia will wake up during the night when she realises we aren’t there but she simply calls out “mum” and I go and get her. It’s generally after Sicily has woken and so I put her in with us and we all just go back to sleep.

Co sleeping isn’t for everyone but it has worked so well for us and our family and lifestyle. We love sleep and our kids have learned to love it too.

Getting 2 kids into a good night time routine isn’t easy when you’re outnumbered by them but by creating sleep cues and associations for them it’s working.

I don’t worry about the clock. I just stick to the same routine. We have dinner, we play and read, the girls had a nice splashy bubble bath together, put on their pjs, (by this point they’re both generally screaming because they are exhausted and just want their milk and to go to bed). I heat up Alessia’s bottle of cows milk, pop her on the couch with a recorded episode of Play School while I breastfeed Sicily, we all sit in the loungeroom with just the lamp on in the corner and kitchen light on in the distance, Sicily feeds to sleep, not ideal but it works so whatever!

I cuddle Sicily and sing to her “you are my sunshine” and place her into her cot. She stays asleep for around 5-6 hours lately before waking to feed. Pre leap 4 (see wonder weeks if not familiar) she was sleeping through for 8-9 hours solid at night, feeding and going straight back to sleep.

As soon as Sicily is tucked in, I grab Alessia and we say goodnight to everything, couch, toys, table, stairs, toy room, bath, you name it! Just something we have always done since she started talking, she loves it and it’s one of her sleep time cues.

Alessia has a rabbit lamp on her bedside table that Adam bought for her when she was born. We turn that on and lay in her bed and talk about our day. I let Alessia do all of the talking, she tells me what she did, who she saw, what she ate. I then tell her all the exciting things we are going to do the following day and tell her that she has to get a “BIG sleep” for the day ahead.

I touch her hair and wipe it away from her face while singing her favourite “you are my sunshine” (she started singing it back to me the other night and I legit balled my eyes out!)

She rolls over and I rub her back, pat her bum until she falls asleep, as soon as her breathing changes she is sound asleep and I get up and walk out. Closing the door behind me.

I have never been quiet around my kid when they’re sleeping, and it’s the best way as I can accidentally drop something or my phone might ring, we could have friends/family over and they both sleep through it.

Only if it has taken me ages to get Sicily down do I go all mumma bear and “shhhhhhhhhhh!”

It’s taken a solid week to get the girls into what I consider OUR perfect routine. It’s just me with them 5 nights a week unless I have visitors and so it needs to work for me.

Today Alessia had a big play date and only a 20 min nap in the car on the way there so we had dinner by 4:30pm and she was sound asleep by 8pm.

I’m going to make another hot cuppa and pop on a face mask and try and get some rest. I also have the worlds biggest basket of folding sitting beside me that is staring at me.

I’ll try and write more over the weekend, if the kids keep up this bedtime you’ll be hearing more from me very soon!

Here are some pictures of the last few months

Thanks for following along x

New Baby, New Home, New Routines

Alessia’s First SleepOver

Last night Alessia had her first ever sleep over.

It did not go very well…

Alessia was fine, me… not so much! 😂

I have never wanted her to have a sleep over as I don’t like the thought of being away from her overnight, and she is such a good sleeper that I haven’t felt like I’ve needed a “break” from her.

But due to needing to be separated when we go into hospital to have Bub, we reluctantly agreed that she needs to have a night away from us to make sure that she would be ok when the time comes.

We had originally planned to go to Gold Class Cinemas as our Obstetrician has gifted us tickets, when we checked the sessions though there was nothing that we wanted to see so decided to just have a night at home.

We ended up staying at my mums for dinner as I wasn’t ready to leave her for such a long period just yet.

It was nice as both my brothers were also there too so it was an impromptu family dinner.

At 8pm we decided it was time to go as Alessia goes down anytime between 8:30 – 10pm depending on how her naps went during the day.

Alessia was completely unphased by us leaving and waved to us as we drove off.

One thing my mum taught/told me was if we are ever leaving our kids, is to make sure we say goodbye to them and never sneak off. This way they understand that you have left rather than look for you and get upset later. Alessia has never cried when we have left her, and knows we will always come back for her.

We didn’t even make it to the end of mums street and I was crying my eyes out! I cried for a good 5 mins and was a mumbling mess. A combination of mum guilt, pregnancy hormones and realising I wouldn’t see my baby girl for 12 hours! 😩

We talked about it in the car on the way home and agreed that whilst we would happily go back and get her, it is necessary in the lead up to Bub number 2.

When we got home, the water works started again! And I struggled to turn them off… I had a nice shower (#TooFatToFitInOurBath 😂) and wiped my tears away, washed my face and convinced myself to try and just enjoy the night off.

Thank god for Netflix! We binge watched 5 episodes of How to get away with Murder before calling it a night at 12:30am

I was texting mum every half hour or so until she told me to “watch my shows or go the f*ck to sleep” 😂

I made her send me a photo of my sleeping Bub as proof that she was ok.

I had one of the worst night sleeps I’ve had in months. Despite getting 7 hours sleep with a quick 4am thanks to a very active Bub Number 2, I woke up feeling tired, and lost despite being in our own home.

For the first time in almost 16 months, I didn’t wake up to my daughter and her delicious cuddles. And I was sad.

FaceTime to the rescue! 🙌🏼

Alessia woke just before 6am at mums, but slept well and was loving playing with her nan nan and enjoying her choc chip toast and banana for breakfast.

We woke at 7:30am. Alessia’s usual wake time, my body clock has adjusted and I’m automatically up at that time now.

We got up, had some breakfast, got ready and left home on route to get our girl! 🏃🏼‍♀️

Thankfully the traffic had eased and we got there relatively quickly. I was so excited to see her, we was she to see us.

Being a daddy’s girl, she was more interested in cuddles with Adam than me but I was just excited to be with her that I didn’t mind.

I am glad we did it but certainly not doing it again unless absolutely necessary anytime soon!

I knew I would hate being away from her, I just didn’t realise how badly I would handle it.

I’m not a helicopter mum but my attachment to this kid is off the charts.

I’m not sure if it’s because we tried so hard to conceive her that I can’t bear the thought of being away from her, or just the type of mum I am #Clingy.

Either way, she is stuck with me…. at least until she’s 35. 😂

Currently 32Weeks+2 Days pregnant so home stretch now 🙈

My Hospital bag is now ready to be packed, bubs newborn stuff is all washed and ready for her.

Alessia is so ready to be a big sister, and whilst the adjustment period may take a little while to understand that she now shares us with her sister, I know she will thrive.

Only a few more weeks left of work now, looking forward to a break before bubs. And by break I mean moving out of our home. We sold it 2 and a bit weeks ago. 👏🏼

2018 is certainly going to be a year to remember.

X

Alessia’s First SleepOver

Gestational Diabetes

2 Weeks ago I completed the dreaded GTT (Glucose Tolerance Test), I didn’t come even close with my first pregnancy so I thought I’d be in the clear again.

The following day I received a call from my Obstetrician to advise that my blood tests show that I have Gestational Diabetes and that I would receive a call from a diabetes educator to make an appointment.

Sure enough, within minutes my phone was ringing again. It was Emily – my diabetes educator to explain my results and book me in for an appointment to meet with her.

Emily explained that in order to be in the clear of Gestational Diabetes my fasting levels needed to be under 5.1, unfortunately my levels were bang on 5.1

So whilst I have Gestational Diabetes, I only just have it – if that’s even a thing.

What this now means for me is using a glucose monitor to check my blood sugars 4 times a day.

First thing in the morning (after a period of 8-10 hours fasting) , 2 hours after breakfast, 2 hours after lunch and 2 hours after dinner.

In order to avoid insulin assistance I am diet and exercise controlling my diabetes which so far is working well for me.

My numbers need to be under 5 at first test in the morning and under 6.7 after meal fasting.

I am allowed to have morning tea, afternoon tea and supper after testing/before the next meal if I feel like something. I can also have water at any point of the day.

Most days I enjoy a cup of tea or Milo as “morning tea” or supper if I don’t have a little snack instead.

I’ve only gone over 6.7 twice since I started testing, once with pasta and the other with Pizza, foods that I am sure I’ll have plenty of in my lifetime so it’s a small sacrifice to make in removing them from my diet for the next few months.

I’ve discovered that Nando’s 1/4 chicken and chips is a meal that I can enjoy without impacting my numbers so that will be my treat meal for the remainder of my pregnancy. I was craving Vietnamese Pho today, since they have rice noodles I only ate half of the noodles but it still hit the spot and my numbers came in at 6.4! 🙌🏼

I’m slowly working out what I can/can’t have, if I’m unsure I’ll go for a 30 min walk after my meal which has so far helped to ensure my numbers are under 6.7.

Cold Grapes have been a refreshing sweet treat that I have enjoyed or the occasional small bowl of strawberry yoghurt on the couch after Alessia goes down as my supper.

Toast with Banana and a cup of hot milo or multi grain weetbix have been my go to breakfast.

Adam is home for lunch each day so I tend to eat my main meal at lunch and have a small serve of veg and chicken or meat for dinner. Tonight was pork schnitzel and a stir fried veggies.

If there is something that I really feel like eating then I just make sure I eat a smaller portion of it and load up on veggies to fill me up.

In the week and a bit since adjusting my diet I have lost 1kg which means that my total weight gain this pregnancy is now 3kg and will likely drop more as the weeks progress, given the baby already weighs half that – plus there is fluid and a placenta in there too I guess I haven’t technically gained anything. I’m very lucky as I’m already heavier than I would like to be and don’t need any added “baby weight” to lose later.

I’ve checked with both my Obstetrician and Diabetes Educator and confirmed that it’s safe to be losing weight, Baby is growing beautifully and that’s all that matters.

I gained 6.7kg my whole pregnancy with Alessia and ate anything/everything I wanted (including a tonne of pasta), by the time she was 10 days old I had lost 11kg so given that I’ve removed sugar and most carbs from my diet it’s expected that weight will start to drop off.

I actually think that the diagnosis is the best thing for me as I tend to have quite a sweet tooth and am enjoying making better choices in meals, a lifestyle change that I hope to continue once bubs arrives.

It was hard to resist having a bit of Birthday cake on Monday for Adam’s Birthday and with Easter being next week doing the grocery shop is torture but my babies health is much more important than a sugar hit.

I will be looking forward to some icecream post delivery that’s for sure!

Any Low Carb/ Low GI recipes – send them my way

X

Gestational Diabetes

A New Year

When the clock strikes 12, we welcome 2018, the year our second baby girl is due to enter the world, the year we say goodbye to our first home and begin our next chapter as a family of 4.

2017 has been one of the most incredible years of my life. I have spent it raising another human and watching her grow into the most adorable and loving little girl. I have also been lucky enough to share magical moments and create amazing memories with my wonderful husband who really is my rock.

The last year has been one that I will treasure forever, so many beautiful moments, milestones and celebrations.

I’m not one to make resolutions, as whenever I have I have failed miserably. I do however hope that those that do make a resolution are able to stick to it and fulfil their goal.

2017 has taught me a lot, I learned a lot about myself this year. I found an even deeper love and appreciation for my husband, I realised just how hard our parents did it when raising us and a new found respect for both my mother and mother in law as not only parents but women.

I developed beautiful new friendships with women that I didn’t even realise I needed in my life and created a sisterhood that I hope lasts forever.

For the last 2.5 months I’ve been back at work part time and juggling motherhood, work and a household. I truly take my hat off to working parents who somehow make it all work despite the chaos.

Today i went though my Facebook memories and I cannot believe just how far we have come in the last few years.

2013/2014 , we were set to marry and it truly was one of the most exciting times of my life.

2014/2015 , newlyweds that wanted to create a family and had just been delivered a blow that it may not be possible.

2015/2016, a year of heartache and disappointment of yet another 12 months of infertility without a hope in sight.

2016/2017, welcoming our miracle Alessia Lucia, who just 12 months earlier we truly never though we would have.

2017/2018, preparing to welcome another blessing and sharing a magical year as a little family.

My point here is, nothing is permanent. Unfortunately sometimes we are faced with difficulties and heartbreak in our lives but living through them truly does make you a stronger individual/couple.

To the couples trying for a baby, keep praying, don’t lose faith, continue to love each other through the pain and build an unbreakable bond that will one day be the backbone of your family unit.

2018 May very well be your year. You just don’t know it yet.

From my family to yours – Happy New Year. Stay Beautiful, Be Grateful, Be Kind, Stay Safe.

Angelucci Family x

A New Year

ONE

They say time flies when you’re having fun…. it does even more so when you’re a mum.

Our baby girl is 1!

1 year and 1 day Ago our lives changed in the most amazing way, we welcomed our little miss Alessia Lucia into the world at 1:56pm on 19th December 2016. She weighed just 3.16kg and instantly became the apple of our eyes.

What an incredible year it has been!

On Saturday 16th December 2017 we celebrated Alessia’s First Birthday with our nearest and dearest.

The party was held at home, we had a donut wall, a jumping castle, lots of yummy food and thankfully, great weather.

Alessia was soooooo spoilt! She received so many beautiful thoughtful gifts and will have hours of endless fun with them. I have put all of her cards in her Baby Box that contains lots of little keepsakes from her first year of life. I can’t wait to gift it to her when she older and sit with her and read through all of her cards.

Our gift to Alessia were 1/2ct Diamond white gold Studs, with her birthday being in such close proximity to Christmas we wanted to get Alessia a sentimental first birthday gift that she can have forever and as such felt that they were the perfect present. Who doesn’t love diamonds! 😝

Yesterday we had Alessia’s Maternal & Child Health Nurse Appointment, Alessia weighs 11.37kg & is 77cm Tall.

She is in the 90th percentile and is the cutest little chubby bubby. Once she starts walking she will lose her puppy fat so we are enjoying all the jiggly cuddles we can.

Alessia has 7 Teeth (4 Top, 3 Bottom) , she says “Mum, Dad, Nan-Nan, Nonna, Yes, Bye & Bubba”. Waves her finger when told “No No No”, standing up and walking with assistance – first steps within a week I reckon.

Alessia co-sleeps and has since we got back from Bali. We absolutely love the snuggly cuddles, she sleeps through the night. Generally from 9pm-7/8am. We will look at transitioning her into her big girl bed before the baby comes but we are in no rush to kick her out of our bed. They’re only little once and there will come a time when she won’t want to be cuddled all the time and we will miss it.

Alessia loves spending time with her grandparents. Since I’ve been back at work she spends at least 1 day a week with each.

Yet to have a sleep over, We can’t bear to spend the night away from her. We will look at letting her between now and her sister arriving as she won’t be able to stay with us at the hospital overnight so I need to cut the cord eventually but to be honest we haven’t needed a night off.

Parenthood is the most amazing thing we have ever done. This last year has been an incredible ride and an absolute pleasure watching our baby girl grow in front of our eyes.

Alessia’s little personality is starting to really shine, such a cheeky bum who we just adore.

Happy Birthday Baby Girl. Thank you for choosing us to be your Mummy & Daddy.

X

ONE

From Infertile to Two under Two!

If you told me 3 years ago that I would have 2 Children in under 2 years I would have said “BULLSHIT!”

Yet, here we are!

On Thursday 28th September 2017 we got those 2 beautiful lines show up.

I’m Pregnant!

As you all know, conceiving Alessia was quite a journey. But we got our girl, and now we are getting another.

Tomorrow I will be 12 Weeks Pregnant with Daughter Number 2! That’s right, it’s a Girl! And she is perfect.

I’m not sure if it was our relaxed approach to having another baby that made it so easy or the fact that my body has worked out what to do, but either way I’m not complaining.

Our dream of Two under 2 is a reality and we are so excited to share that come June 2018 Alessia will have a baby sister.

Baby Number 2 was conceived in our Third Month of trying. From our 6 week check up post delivery with Alessia our first question to Dr Sgroi was “when can we try again”, Dr Joe said ideally there would be an 18 Month age gap between bubs however as we had difficulties conceiving Alessia he was happy for us to start trying when she was 6 Months Old.

We decided that in Bali we would stop all precautions and just see what happens. We had destroyed our embryos months prior and had the mentality that if it didn’t happen naturally again then it was ok, we were blessed with Alessia and if she was it then we were lucky.

Of course we wanted to give her a sibling but I never wanted to go back down the IVF path and we didn’t know if it would or could happen again.

The morning of 28th September 2017, my period was 9 days late…. I had an inkling but the month before it had been 7 days late and I ended up getting my period and a negative test so I didn’t get my hopes up.

As soon as I finished testing Adam took the test off me and I went back to bed to lay down for cuddles with Alessia. Adam said the positive result showed almost immediately, he knew for a minute or so before he showed me and I love that he had a moment whereby he knew we were having a baby and he got to be the one to tell me. Usually it’s the other way around and it was such a special moment that I’ll never forget.

I’ve since had a few scans and bloods done, bubs is perfect and we have our 12 week scan booked for when we are 13w1d.

Our percept results came back low risk and we found out that it’s a girl. We were happy with either gender but we are so excited that we will have 2 girls especially so close in age! Alessia will have just turned 17 Months when her sister arrives.

It’s going to be a very busy time in our lives but we certainly aren’t the first to have 2 under 2 and knowing that they will always have each other and hopefully be the best of friends makes us so excited.

Adam has said he will definitely need a man cave in our next home as in 15/16 years we are going to have two teenage girls in our house and if they’re anything like me he will need an escape during “that time of the month” 😂

I’ll continue to share our pregnancy journey with you all over the coming months. This one is flying by

I’m trying to be super organised but my gosh it’s hard with an almost 1 year old, planning a first birthday, Christmas, looking at building a new family home, preparing for the arrival of a new baby girl in 6 Months time but somehow it all works out.

Our days are filled with cuddles, naps, swimming lessons, Walks, story time, wiggles and lots of washing.

I promised myself that I would fill in Alessia’s baby book each month, so far I have kept that promise, I am also now filling in a pregnancy journal each week. I have just ordered a beautiful matching baby book for the new baby but they now stock them in pink! So of course I got her a pink one.

If you’re after beautiful keepsake journals. Check out @writetome on instagram. You won’t be disappointed!

Until next time x

From Infertile to Two under Two!

Back To Reality 

Tomorrow marks the last day of my maternity leave. As of Friday, I am officially a working mum. 

There will be tears, so many tears! 

Not from Alessia though, she will be fine! Haha 

I haven’t left my girl for more than 4-5 hours at a time, and when I have it’s a rare occasion, so the thought of spending 10 hours away from Alessia two days in a row will be torture! 

I have been meaning to do a trial run for months, to see how she goes being away from me. But truth be told, I’m obsessed with this kid and hate being away from her unless absolutely necessary so I never did it , now I somewhat regret it, despite knowing that she will be in the best hands with my mum and mother in law this weekend, I’ll constantly worry, but I probably would have anyway even if I was used to leaving her.  

My first few shifts will be in the office so that I can find my feet again and get up to date with communications etc. 

Once I am working from home, Alessia will be home with her Daddy for the first few hours of my day before he drops her off at either my mums, or his. I’ll be able to sneak in a kiss and cuddle on my break. 

I have been so lucky to have had 10.5 months of paid leave to bond with my baby, to watch her grow. I am fortunate that I am only returning 3 days a week so that I can still have work/life balance. 

As much as I would love to be a stay at home mum forever, I love having my own money and contributing to our household. It will mean that we can continue to go on holidays every year and live a comfortable life. It’s a small sacrifice to make for our family’s future. 

Alessia will get a chance to bond with her grandparents who just absolutely adore her. I loved spending time with my grandmother when I was a kid. I still have a very strong bond with my nan. A bond that I hope Alessia shares with both her Nan Nan & her Nonna. 

Work will provide me with a bit of routine that I am missing. Currently we don’t have a routine in our house. And whilst it suits us, a bit of structure to our days will be refreshing I’m sure. 

We are now busy planning Alessia’s First Birthday, invitations will be going out next week! So excited! 

I can’t believe that Christmas is just around the corner 🙈. 

Thankfully my Christmas Shopping for Alessia is all done! Thanks to Big W Layby & Mattel Sale. 

I’ll be blogging more in the coming weeks about Party Prep, How I’m transitioning to being back at work, Christmas etc. 

I have been meaning to blog a 9 month update of Alessia , I’ll aim to get it done soon. Hopefully before she turns 1 haha 

Alessia is now 9.5 Months Old, Approximately 11kg and growing taller by the day. 

Alessia has started swimming lessons on Wednesdays at Windy Hill. She absolutely loves the water and is doing so well already! 

Loves to feed herself! Blueberries are her favourite snack. We are going through a few punnets a week at the moment. 

Still Breastfeeding. I’m actually proud of myself for continuing feeding. I plan on Breastfeeding her until at least age 1. Then wean her to cows milk. But I’m in no rush to make her stop Breastfeeding. I do love the bond we share when feeding and it’s such a beautiful feeling knowing your body is nourishing your child.

I’ll save the rest of her update for her own blog entry. 

Thanks for Reading!

Here are some pics from the last month or so. 


Back To Reality 

Baby Food Prep 

For anyone that follows me on Instagram and Snapchat, you will have seen that this weekend I embarked on what I deemed #BabyMealPrepMarathon. 

I made it my mission to make 100 meals this weekend for Alessia, to have in the freezer for both lunches and dinners. I managed to make 72, meh! Close enough 😝

Alessia is now 8 months old and while most of the time we let her ‘eat what we eat’, we do live a different lifestyle to most in that Adam works afternoons/Evenings and therefore our family meal time is lunch, not dinner. As such, we have our main meal together at lunch and dinner time is generally me eating a bowl of something leftover out of the fridge or the occasional cup of tea and slice of toast when I’m either not prepared or not that hungry. 

I am a very fussy eater and most of the time will refuse to try new things, Adam is the opposite  and will try/eat anything and everything! I want Alessia to have Adam’s mentality towards trying new food and felt that by pre preparing her meals I could include much more variety into her diet and hopefully develop her palette in turn. 

I had quite a few requests for recipes over the last few days so decided to share them with you all and hopefully have some sent my way in return. 

Friday was grocery shopping day. We visited the butcher and green grocer to stock up on fresh ingredients as well as Coles for some staple items. 

I chose the weekend that Alessia’s front tooth decided to cut through which wasn’t ideal as I was extremely tired but this made me even more proud of my culinary achievements. It’s amazing how far we can push our bodies on so little sleep. 

I made 6 different types of foods that Alessia can consume over the coming months. I plan on adding to this with supply as 6 meals certainly isn’t enough variety, but I feel it’s a good start. 

• Lentils 

• “One Pot Chicken” 

• Baby Bolognese

• Chicken Mushroom Pasta 

• Baby Beef Casserole with Rice 

• Mashed Mixed Vegetables 
LENTILS:

1x Tbs Olive Oil, 1 x Onion, 1 x small tin of diced Italian tomatoes (I just use the Coles brand) , 1 x 375g pack of McKenzies whole green lentils, 1 x punnet of Continental Parsley, 3 X Carrots, 750ml-1L of Salt Reduced Chicken Stock (I used Coles Brand, can use homemade also), 1 x pack of Coles Brand Dry Chicken Noodle Soup Mix.

You’ll need a heavy based stainless steel pot for this one, on a medium sized burner. 

To prepare, wash and dry parsley, peel carrots. 

*I used my Breville Food Processor to chop my vegetables this weekend as CBF chopping everything up by hand.* 

Put onion in processor and blitz until finely chopped. 

Heat pot and add oil, cook onion until clear, then add whole can of diced tomatoes and stir, cooking off on a medium heat for approximately 5 mins. 

Blitz parsley and add to pot and stir, then blitz carrot until finely chopped and add to pot. 

Add in the entire bag (375g) of whole green lentils, add chicken stock and bring to the boil. Reduce to a simmer and stir often until reduced and lentils are soft (approx 45-60mins). 

You can add more stock/water to the mix if you feel it is too dry through the cooking process.

Once cooked, add chicken noodle soup mix and stir well. Allow to cook for a further 5 mins then remove from heat and allow to cool. 

Portion into Zip lock bags or small containers to freezer. This quantity makes approximately 20 Portions (1/3-1/2Cup) 

ONE POT CHICKEN: 

20g butter,1 x Leek, 1/2 large sweet potato, 3 x carrots, 1 x medium/large chicken breast(cubes), 750ml salt reduced chicken stock (again I used the Coles brand carton for this one). 

For this one you will need a heavy based deep frying pan with a lid. 

I again blitzed my vegetables in my food processor, separating the Leek. 

On a medium burner on a medium heat, melt butter in pan and add Leek, cooking until soft. Add cubed chicken and cook until coloured slightly, add sweet potato & carrot and stir. 

Cover with chicken stock and bring to slight boil, add lid to cover and reduce to a simmer for approximately 25/30 mins whilst stirring often. 

Once chicken is cooked through and liquid reduced, turn off heat and remove chicken. 

Add chicken to clean & dry food processor and blitz every so slightly to shred the chicken. 

Stir the chicken back into the pan and allow to cool before portioning into containers or zip locks. 

*I like to label all of my zip lock bags with the contents and date* 

This recipe gave me 12 x Portions however you may get more/less depending on portion size. 

You can add pasta or rice to the dish if you like and this can be added directly into the pan provided there is sufficient liquid. 

BABY BOLOGNESE:

Tbsp Olive Oil, 500g Lean Beef Mince, 1/2 Sweet Potato, 1 x Leek, 1/2 bunch continental parsley, 1 x Medium Zucchini, 250g fresh mushrooms, 250ML Salt Reduced Chicken Stock, 1 x bottle of Passata (could be replaced by 2 x small tins of crushed/diced tomatoes). 

I used the same heavy based deep frying pan that I used for the one pot chicken for this one. 

Again, blitzing all vegetables and parsley before starting. 

On a high heat, add oil to pan and fry beef mince until cooked. 

This one is pretty simple in that you then add all remaining ingredients and stir! 

I add parsley, Zucchini, carrot, Leek and sweet potato all together at this point and stir, then mix in the chicken stock, stir, then stir through the bottle of passata. 

Bring to a light boil, then reduce and simmer until thickened. 

I would say around the 50/60 min mark for this one. Stirring often, lid off. 

Allow to cool and then portion.

CHICKEN MUSHROOM PASTA: 

Tbsp Olive Oil, 1 x Large Chicken Breast (Diced), 250g Mushroom, 1/2 Sweet Potato, Leek, 750ml Salt Reduced Chicken Stock, 1/2C Soup/Alphabet Pasta (I prefer the Aldi one as it doesn’t go soggy) 

Same deep heavy based pan with lid for this one. 

Blitz mushrooms, sweet potato and Leek separately and set aside.

On medium burner, medium heat – add oil and Leek and cook until soft, add chicken and cook until slightly coloured. 

Add finely chopped/blitzed mushroom and sweet potato and stir, add chicken stock and simmer until veg is soft and chicken is completely cooked. 

You’ll find that this one has quite a bit of liquid, perfectly normal! 

Remove the cooked chicken and either chop/shred or process and leave out for the moment. 

Add the dry pasta to the still simmering veg and stock mix. Stir often.

Remove from heat once the pasta is cooked and return the chicken and stir through. 

Allow the mix to cool slightly then portion. 

I got 10 x Portions from this one. It’s a delicious recipe and one that I would definitely like to make for Adam and I one night. 

BABY BEEF CASSEROLE WITH RICE:

Tbsp Olive Oil, 300g Lean Chuck Steak/Stewing/Gravy Beef, 1 x Zucchini, 1/2 Bunch of Parsley, 1 x Large Sweet Potato, 1Cup Salt reduced Beef Stock, 1 x small can of Diced Tomatoes.

Deep Heavy Based Frying Pan with lid used again.

Blitz the parsley, Zucchini, sweet potato in preparation.

High Heat, Medium Burner – heat the pan and cook diced beef until slightly coloured/sealed.

Combine the beef stock and canned tomatoes in a measuring jug. 

Reduce the beef to a medium/simmering heat and add all vegetables and parsley. Then stir in the stock/tomatoes mix. 

Cover with lid and stir often. 

Once beef is soft (approx 60 mins), remove the beef, allow to cool slightly then shred. (Again, I gave it a quick blitz in the food processor)

Add 1/2C raw Basmati Rice and continue to stir. Cook until the rice is cooked. 

Return the shredded beef to the mix and stir well.

Remove from heat, allow to cool slightly then portion. 

I got 20 x 1/4C Portions from this recipe. 


MASHED MIXED VEGETABLES: 

Don’t think I really need to explain this one do I? 😂

I simply steamed Zucchini, Carrot,Cauliflower, Broccoli & Pumpkin. 

I then allowed them to cool and mashed them slightly with a potato masher in a big ass bowl, adding a small amount of salt and portioning up into zip locks. 

I find it’s handy to have mashed veg in the freezer as it can be added to whatever we are having to add volume to a dish or even to simply stir through pasta for an easy meal for Alessia on those busy days. 
I hope you all enjoy these recipes! 

All are my own except the One Pot Chicken which was shared by a friend. It’s definitely a winner and she makes it with soup/alphabet pasta which is a delicious combo. 

All recipes can be altered to include preferred vegetables and even herbs. 

They all freeze well and can be doubled or halved easily. 
Please let me know if this is something you would like me to continue to share… 

Now back to my Cup of Tea, Happy Sunday Folks! 

Baby Food Prep